good and what is bad?”; excursions to production
facilities; “Who can become who”, “Boys and
girls – masters of all trades”, “Girls are future
mothers, boys are future fathers”.
The following common classes were held with
children: “What professions are there for the
brave”, “Protection and compassion – the
qualities of a man and a woman”, “Boy and girl
behavior”, “Good – bad”, didactic games: “He
and she are like naughty”, “Describe a portrait of
a girl or a boy”, “A boy and a girl are so different
and so similar”, “How to act properly”, “A boy
and a girl are a future family”, “Listen and find”,
“Boys and girls are similar to themselves”.
Game-competitions stimulating cognitive
activity were used: “Name a brave profession”,
“Describe a portrait of a girl (boy) in words”,
“Who will convey the character of the hero
(heroine) of a famous work?”, “Who composes a
short story about a boy (girl, mother, father,
grandmother, grandfather) with the following
words (cheerful, mischievous, funny, hero,
brave, winner, gentleman, etc.)”.
During conducting classes and games, we paid
attention to the fact that often character traits and
behavioral characteristics did not depend on the
child’s gender, but only on what actions parents,
educators, friends expected from him/her, what
they praise and what they berate for. These
methods and forms of work made it possible to
implement the tasks of the first stage. In
particular, the use of multimedia and interactive
methods allowed children to form an idea of
modern gender roles. After all, the conditions of
gender socialization require girls to show not
only traditionally feminine qualities (softness,
femininity), but also determination, initiative, the
ability to defend their own interests and achieve
results, and boys – tolerance, sensitivity, and the
ability to come to help. In the process of
interaction, the preschool teachers encouraged
the children to evaluate the features of the gender
behavior of the fairy tales and cartoons heroes
from the point of view of the use of gender
stereotypes.
The purpose of the second – organizational-
targeted – stage was the formation of children’s
abilities to build constructive gender relations
and harmonious relationships (to initiate help,
sympathy, emotional support, to do good useless
deeds). The tasks of this stage included:
formation of socially-oriented motives for the
common activities of children of different
gender; directing children to achieve positive
results in common activities; ability to establish
positive relationships between children of a
different gender group. During the second stage,
the second pedagogical condition was
implemented: stimulation of the interaction of
different gender subjects in a single social-and-
developmental educational environment of a
preschool educational institution. A number of
various methods and forms of work was the
substantial aspect of the implementation of the
tasks at this stage: game exercises,
developmental games, problem situations,
common collective creativity, errands,
entertainment, organization of children’s
practical experience, introduction of motives for
social encouragement of common activity, self-
service, work in nature, visual activities, sports
games, “rukhanky” (exercises) which
contributed to assimilation of gender behavior
and culture of relations with peers of the same
and opposite gender, tolerant attitude towards
them, ability to establish friendly partner
relations.
The following game situations: “Scene with toys
– a ready-made solution”, “Native, familiar,
stranger”, “Why did people come up with
rules?”, “We teach our friends that things we can
do well ourselves”, “Builder”, “Mosaic”,
“Broken phone” and others were among them.
Indirect methods of guidance (leading questions,
prompts, preliminary positive evaluations),
methods of setting up for success in achieving
positive results, elements of psychological
training, methods of organizing activities,
analysis of various types of situations that arose
spontaneously or were created by a preschool
teacher were also used.
In the course of role-playing games, game
situations like “My family”, “Airport”, “Moving
to a new flat”, “We are waiting for the guests”,
“Toy store”, “Children are sick”, “Birthday
celebration” and real life activities, children
implemented their knowledge about cultural
standards of behavior, acquired the skills of
establishing partner, friendly relationships with
peers (ability to agree, understand other’s point
of view, come to help, rejoice at other’s success
(male-friend, female-friend), take good care of
the results of someone else’s work).
The example of equality of requirements for girls
and boys was sports games and exercises. For
example, a preschool teacher could offer to play
“kozaky-rozbiinyky” (Cossacks-bandits), which
both boys and girls want to play, learning about
the world. Children were convinced that there
were no types of occupations or professions that
would be suitable only for the representatives of